Conquering your Dating and Relationship Fears

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…….Make your Relationship work!
I agree with you, dating is not always easy or fun, but it’s time to conquer your fears and make things happen for yourself. Because there are no better relationships, they only conquered their fears.
It’s time to conquer your dating and relationship fears and make things happen for yourself. Dating or being in a relationship should be a fun and positive experience, not one that makes you anxious just thinking about it. If you fear rejection, insecurity, infidelity, cheat,deceit, intimacy, abandonment or commitment, you aren’t alone.
According to statistics gathered by our investigative panel, many respondents tends to be scared of the above mentioned fears in their relationship. Lending credence to this, one Comr Ikedi Ohaegbu Kelvin; a final year student of Federal Polytechnic, Oko, emphasized that his fear in a relationship is insecurity. In his words, “insecurity, as per not being sure if your partner understands exactly the way you feel and if she feels the same way”.
Angelic Nature who also identified herself as a final year student of mass communication, Federal Polytechnic, oko have contrary view on this. According to Angelic Nature, being authoritative is my fear in any relationship. “Some men just like being in control of everything,they try to gain mastery as if is a contest for supremacy” she concluded.
Well, it’s normal at some point in your life to harbor these feelings and, in fact, once you accept and know what your fears are you can begin to deal with and conquer them to make your relationship adventurous.
On this note, one of the things to do in order to conquer your dating fears include beating your fear of commitment. Commitment according to this study is one of the most common fears people have, because in committing to someone else you’re now accountable for their feelings and needs.
Talk with your partner about your fears and ask for help to try and resolve them. In any relationship if you make a commitment to someone you risk the partnership ending at some point, but if you don’t trust your judgment in the other person and give the relationship a chance you may never be with someone and you’ll end up alone anyway. Why not take the opportunity to let go of your fear and commit to someone you feel a connection with?
Furthermore, conquer your fear of rejection. The fear of rejection is a natural feeling for most people. You want to be loved, liked or even just wanted but if you let what other people think ruin your self-image it’s time to let go and start controlling your own happiness. If you were rejected you would feel disappointed and sad but these feelings would pass with time and you will move forward. Once you realize that you’ll recover if this were to happen, you finally free yourself to take a chance on finding love.
It’s also important to conquer your fears of rejection by not setting yourself up for failure. Don’t seek out people who are unavailable, try asking a friend to set you up on a blind date, start a new activity to meet other people and update or get your profile on an internet dating site to increase your chances of finding other singles or join Rotaract Club Federal Polytechnic, oko. Lolz!
Conclusively on conquering your relationship and dating fears is defeating your fear of abandonment. Insecurity and fear of abandonment can ruin your relationship or prevent one from even getting started. You don’t know what the future holds for your relationship; the best thing that you can do is to make your expectations clear from the beginning, address your fears and talk about differences or challenges with your partner while they are still small and manageable.

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